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Message from Desiree Dalli

June 25, 2018 8:11 PM

I’m very sorry for your family’s loss. Dr Ashby was my and my husband’s family doctor for nearly 8 years. He was the best doctor I ever had, and when he semi-retired, I was so sad to lose him. He was one of the good ones and I’m so sad to hear of his passing. I am so thankful that I was able to know him.

Expression of Sympathy

A Warm Smile was ordered on November 30, 2017

Message from Tom Ashby

November 30, 2017 5:04 PM

Always funny and inspiring. I have fond memories of many family reunions with the three Ashby boys as Emcee. Lake Powell trips were fun with Richard. Wonderful man, real and genuine.

Message from Patricia

November 30, 2017 2:30 PM

My deepest condolences to the family. I was sad to hear of Dr. Ashby's passing. He will be dearly missed by all. I was fortunate to have worked for him at VCMC. His sense of humor, and compassionate heart, are dearly remembered. I hope all those wonderful memories, great love he had for all of you, and the remembrance of the extraordinary life he lived, comfort you. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

With Love,
Patricia

Message from ERIK TOFT - Copenagen

November 30, 2017 4:55 AM

For my part the past, the present and the future is in a peculiar way present in my mind in a connected way as a whole.

When Lone and I celebrated our 50 year marriage last year with an unforgettable party I felt the presence - or the interest- from our family - that had passed away - in a "nearness" almost as time was no more.

I met Richard for the first time in Los Angeles in 1960, when I was 15 years old. In the following years we were occasionally together on my and Lone's trips to the USA. Even though we most of the time were geographically apart we always felt a closeness to Richard, Pam and our whole US family.

However what I remembered mostly from our visits was our frequently chess games - Richard and I had. I think I never won any game at all - or maybe one or two times due to his friendly hart.

Even though we are apart from our deceased friends and family member, a timeless and nearness is still prevailing which makes it easier for us to cope with the nature of life.

Having said that, Richard will be missed by us all and please accept our deepest condolences and may you all find peace and comfort in your heart.

Message from DeLores Pace

November 28, 2017 11:00 PM

I am so sorry for your loss. May the Lord comfort all of you at this time. He will truly be missed.

Message from Marcus James

November 28, 2017 7:14 PM

Doc Ashby was my PCP a few years ago. He was by far the best doc I ever had. His compassion and understanding was the best. We had many talks about his son Nathan. Doc left Kaiser and I eventually met Nathan. Nathan, please accept my thoughts and prayers for your family. Your Dad touched my B heart in many ways.

Message from Patty (Plueger) Marks Gilmore

November 28, 2017 2:18 PM

Pam and family. I am so saddened to hear of Richard's passing. I am holding all of you in my heart and in my prayers. I had the good fortune of having Richard as my boss for many years in Ventura, for being a friend to Pam, and watching some of the children grow up. These were years I treasured. Yes, Richard was an amazing man and doctor. He loved his family so very much. I know all of you will miss him greatly. My deepest sympathy.

Patty

A candle was lit by Linda Hodson Burdick on November 28, 2017 9:58 AM

A candle was lit by William Goldie MD on November 28, 2017 8:48 AM

Message from William Goldie MD

November 28, 2017 8:47 AM

Richard Ashby was a true physician and a true leader. He radiated a sense of purpose and commitment that was an inspiration for many. He possessed a charismatic quality that stimulated whoever he met to perform at their highest level of quality. He truly cared about healthcare, and he was a dynamic leader who helped structure quality care. He served as a beacon that radiated a sense of compassion and caring that inspired us all. He leaves a legacy of highest quality in healthcare and in leadership and in lifestyle. His memory is woven deeply into the lives of many. Thank you Richard.

A candle was lit by Reggie and Carol Matz on November 26, 2017 10:57 PM

Message from Christine Dudley

November 26, 2017 12:34 PM

I will always remember him as Brother Ashby, He always had a smile and was willing to help in what ever way he could. He has left a great legacy for his family and friends to live up to. May the Ashby family find peace and love at this time! Hugs to Pam!

Message from Alton Wade

November 26, 2017 7:49 AM

From my early youth you have always been one of my heroes! So glad our paths crossed recently, and they will again in a much better place. Talofa, Richard. Love and blessings to all the family from the Alton and Diana Wade family.

A candle was lit by Jim & Julie Jones and Family on November 25, 2017 2:26 PM

Message from Barbara Jefferson

November 24, 2017 3:59 PM

Keeping all of Richard's family in our hearts and wishing them peace. He was a wonderful and loving father and grandfather.
Barbara, Warren and Felicia

A candle was lit by Barbara & Warren Jefferson & Felica Guarent on November 24, 2017 3:56 PM

Message from Aaron Serr

November 24, 2017 8:24 AM

Rather Dan... Rather Dan.... Come in Rather Dan.

Thanks for the memories, Dr. Ashby. Godspeed.

A candle was lit by Renee & Mike Aven on November 23, 2017 9:39 PM

Message from Larry McGrorty

November 23, 2017 10:44 AM

Richard was a wonderful man and friend. He has left many memories for all who knew him and will cherish for life. He has left a legacy for life with all of his children and so much more for his loving wife Pam, my dear friend. No doubt, he will be misses but our memories will last forever, until we meet again. I was shocked to here of your passing. Rest in Peace my friend, I am a better man for having known you.
Larry

A candle was lit by Sissy, Mary Fernandez Novak on November 22, 2017 9:54 PM

Message from Karen Norman

November 22, 2017 3:39 PM

He was my 10th grade Seminary teacher in Ojai. I learned a lot from him. I am sorry for your loss. Thank goodness for forever families.