A candle was lit by Sister Cynthia 5 years and still missed. Always Remembered on April 26, 2022 1:19 PM

Message from Alexandra Bray

Cindy, while I feel there truly are no words of comfort, I want to extend my sincere condolences. I can only imagine the heartache and grief you are experiencing. You and Steve were such a huge part of my teenage years. When I think of you both I see your driveway filled with the cars of all of us girls as we hung out, had sleepovers, got ready for dances, races, and fumbled our way through our high school years. Steve took us to our 5k races, never failing to mention how, "when he was a runner..."(as we were all rolling our eyes in the back seat). As time passed and our paths separated, it was such a comfort to see his kind face at Sutter Roseville, the chaplain for some of my toughest calls. He was a wonderful father, not only to his own kids, but to all of us. I am struggling with this great loss and can only imagine what you are going through. You are all loved and in my heart and thoughts.

Message from Lianne Lewellen

Cindy my thoughts and prayers are with you. We keep getting tested everyday of our life in hopes that we will once again be with our loved ones. Just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking about you.

Expression of Sympathy

A Dignity in White Pedestal Arrangement was sent on May 4, 2017

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Love - Johann & Angela

A candle was lit by Crystal and Scott on May 4, 2017 3:04 PM

Expression of Sympathy

A Tropical Dish Garden with Fresh Flowers was ordered on May 3, 2017

A candle was lit by Knekia on May 1, 2017 7:49 PM

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Heavenly Father has gained another wonderful angel in his fold. Thank you for being such a wonderful man and raising an amazing daughter and wonderful friend. I will never forget the times I was able to be in such a heavenly presence. Your absence will leave a void, but knowing that your family will be reunited eternally brings everyone peace.

Message from Crystal

Thank you for those kind words, Knekia. My Dad thought you were just such a great and vibrant spirit. I'm so happy you were able to know him.

A candle was lit by Randi Andersen on May 1, 2017 7:54 AM

A candle was lit by Fred and Kathleen Penney on April 30, 2017 4:44 PM

Message from Frederick Penney

Simply stated Steve was the nicest, kindest person I have ever met. He was fun, loving, nice to everyone and clearly showed love to his family and friends.

Message from Cindy Hehner

Fred, thank you for your kind words about Steve. He lived when we all got together for our New Years Eve Parties. (Well at least I thought he did) lol.

Message from Elder Smokey Bassett

Cindy,
So many good people cross our paths as we serve the Lord and the country. Steve served both and he was an important part of the Rocklin Stake Public Affairs staff, providing me with much needed guidance and help. Our military careers did not cross, but we shared that proud service and I hope he will be so recognized. Thank you for supporting his numerous efforts to serve others for so long.
Elder Smokey & Jackie Bassett
MSgt, USAF Retired.

Message from Cindy Hehner

Thank you Elder Smokey Bassett, Steven truly loved working with you and in the Stake Public Affairs.
Cindy Hehner

A candle was lit by Vicki and Mike Stilwell on April 29, 2017 8:34 PM

A candle was lit by Maddie Castellanos on April 29, 2017 4:53 PM

Message from Maddie Castellanos

Grandpa I love you so very much! I miss you so much. I'll never ever forget you, I know you loved me and I love you. Thank you for all the things you did for me. I'll see you again one day. Love from Granddaughter Maddie (oldest)

Message from Grandma cindy

Maddie , grandpa loved you so much too. I love you too so very much.

A candle was lit by Andrea Gonzales on April 29, 2017 11:18 AM

Message from Fred and Mary Staker

Sweet Cindy, I have no words that can convey our heartfelt love for you at this time. Steve joined Jim in his quest to find others in another place. We know that it's impossible to understand your loss. We care!

Expression of Sympathy

A Garden Path Vase was ordered on April 29, 2017

A candle was lit by Karen Jarvis on April 28, 2017 9:46 PM

A candle was lit by Donna Potter on April 28, 2017 8:54 PM

Message from Daniel T Aldridge Jr

I am so so sorry to hear of Steve's passing. He was a man who truly gained my respect, admiration, appreciation and love during our service together in Stake Public Affairs for many months (Rocklin and Roseville Stakes). Our paths have not crossed much in the past several years, but there always has been, and will always be, special feelings in my heart for him. May his family be comforted. So grateful for all the good he did during his mortal sojourn. Looking forward to a future reunion.

Message from Celestia Lyman

I am so sad to hear this. Steve was always so kind to me and came and gave me a blessing in the hospital when I wrecked my car and my dad was out of town. He will be missed. ❤️

A candle was lit by Erika & Gary Curtaz on April 28, 2017 6:04 PM

A candle was lit by Lori and Dave Welch (and Tyler). Love to you and your famil. on April 28, 2017 5:50 PM

Message from DONNA LUNDQUIST

I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU STEVEN, YOU WILL BE FOREVER IN MY HEART AND SOUL AND I WILL ALWAYS CARRY THE GOOD MEMORIES, UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN YOUR COUSIN DONNA LUNDQUIST

A candle was lit by Millie Williams on April 28, 2017 4:56 PM

A candle was lit by The Houston's and Williams's on April 28, 2017 4:41 PM

A candle was lit by Ben, Kim, Connor, Madi, Colton & Cordell Reeves on April 28, 2017 4:21 PM

A candle was lit by Heather Bradshaw nee Barry and family on April 28, 2017 4:07 PM

Expression of Sympathy

A Ray of Sunshine was sent on April 28, 2017

Steve will be missed by everyone who knew him.

Message from Randy & Shauna Thomson

We remember the many times we would be in Reno to see a show or at the movies in Roseville/Rocklin, and run into Steve and Cindy. We even ran into them while on vacation in Hawaii. We had many good times together and will miss Steve greatly. Some day we will meet again. Until then we know you'll be about Father's work.
Love,
Randy & Shauna

Message from Cindy Hehner

Randy and Shauna,
We loved running into you guys everywhere. That was so crazy. You have always been great friends and we live you both so much.
Thank you
Cindy

Message from Reo Grover

I met Brother Hehner when I was serving as a missionary in the Lincoln 3rd ward (LDS congregation). Their's was one of my favorite homes to come to. Brother and Sister Hehner were always fun to be around. They would playfully tease each other. You could really tell they loved and knew each other well. Steve would talk to us about his past mission experiences, his business adventures and even about gaming. There was never a dull moment. I could tell from the beginning that he had a great testimony of God and His roll in our lives. When he would speak of the gospel, the spirit would be present. He was an intelligent and educated man, and I respected greatly.
I visited them after I had returned home from the mission. Both Steve and Cindy (Sister Hehner, as I called her) recognized me instantly. They cared about me, even though I was just one of many missionaries that had come and gone through their ward over about 2 years since. I sat and talked with them for a while and they never made me feel like I was intruding on better things they could be doing. I really appreciated the love they showed me.

Cindy, I'm sorry he has left you so soon. I hope you can find peace and comfort during this time. I could tell he loved you deeply. I hope to find what yall have for myself one day. But I know he must be about doing the Lord's work now on the other side. I've always found comfort in D&C 138, especially in verse 57. I remember finding that verse when my grandfather died when I was young. It brought peace to me and I hope it can for you too.

Message from Cindy Hehner

Reo,
Thank you. We loved having you at our home. You are a sweet spirit. Thank you for your kind words.
Love
Cindy

A candle was lit by Michael Swartz on April 28, 2017 12:40 PM

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Farewell my brother and fellow patriot. I'll miss you and remember you all the remainder of my days, and so will my family. We look forward to seeing you again someday. Until then, I'm sure that our Father has plenty of work for you to do. So enjoy your adventure, carry on the good work and know you'll always be in our hearts.
To Cindy and family, I share your loss, I share your love of Steve, and I share your hope to someday be reunited with him. Until then, we carry on together and cherish the memories and appreciate the time we had with him.

A candle was lit by Michael Swartz on April 28, 2017 12:33 PM

Message from Jennifer

I am so sorry for your loss. Steve had a very kind heart and was very sweet to my family. One memory I have of him is a recent one. Steve was a huge help in selling my car. It was an emotional time for me as I was getting married and on top of that I was moving to Canada. Words can't describe how much that meant to me. That he took the time too help me, meant a whole lot to me.
-Jennifer Hirsche

Message from Cindy Hehner

Jennifer, I remember when Steven came home and was so happy he sold your car for you. He loved you. You are the wonderful Aunt to our beautiful grandchildren. You will always hold a place in my heart.
Thank you,
Cindy

Message from Michelle Landay

Such an enormous loss. Steve was a good man in every sense of the word. Anyone who crossed his path was blessed and better for it. May your faith sustain you, and the love of family and friends hold you up. We love you.

Message from Cindy Hehner

Michelle; I love you and miss you so much. Thank you with all my heart. See you soon.

Message from Joshua Green

Steve was such a great friend and school mate. With his great help and support I was able to graduate from college. We both graduated from UOP together.
He was fun to play video games with and his positive attitude has always reminded me that I can be better and more positive too.
My oldest kids will be reminded of Steve since he was able to help with their baby blessings.
Prayers of support are with your family until you all meet again. I look forward to seeing him again as well.

Message from Cindy Hehner

Josh; Thank you so much. Steve had such love for you and your family. Of course, you did marry into the Cottman Family and we love them so much.

Cindy

Message from Candie Green

I am heartbroken for you and your kids Cindy. Love and prayers for you all.

Message from Cindy Hehner

Candi, thank you.
Cindy

Message from Kelly Stallcop

Cindy and family,
Words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss. I am continuing to pray for all of you for peace, comfort and wisdom. The great thing about this is that you WILL see him again. He is pain free and living the dream with our Lord. I am here for you and if there is anything I can help with please do not hesitate to call me at 916-284-1600. Kelly Stallcop

Message from Cindy Hehner

Thank you so much Kelly. This is the hardest thing I have ever endured. I never in a million years thought this would happen to us and so sudden. I am truly saddened for this tremendous loss. I am sad for my Children and my Grandchildren. They loved him so much.
Thank you for all your kind words and prayers. I felt them every day.
Cindy

A candle was lit by Michelle Landay on April 28, 2017 12:10 PM

A candle was lit by Michelle Landay on April 28, 2017 12:10 PM

A candle was lit by Kelly Stallcop on April 28, 2017 12:06 PM

Expression of Sympathy

A Spathiphyllum was sent on April 28, 2017

Cindy, I know this is an enormous loss, but you may be comforted by the knowledge that Steve left the world better than he found it. Jeff Nurik and Cohen & Associates

A candle was lit by Ben, Jody, & Jeremy Price & Families on April 27, 2017 12:54 PM